men :/
normalise liberal/commie/marxist men shutting tf up about womens’ issues and staying in their place when they arent educated enough on the topic they all read one feminist book and all of a sudden think they have the right to speak over women. ik u think you’re trying to help but it just doesn’t work that way, men will never GENUINELY learn to respect and understand women if they’re just hearing something from another man esp when the content is super incorrect/watered down and u may argue against it but thats literally the hard facts
just because you’re an ally doesnt mean you’re no longer an oppressor. i swear the only reason they like feminism is because of the marxist part. they dont give a fuck about women and its clear as day
do you know how many “feminist” men i’ve seen being retarded online when they just are trying to appeal to women and other individuals they talk to pretending they are full support of a group that they dont give a fuck about. liberal men try to be on our side but theyre just as fucking bad thats excluding the fact that majority of it is performative af
”sw is exploitative because we live in a capitalist society and all work under capitalism is-” god shutshustup shut up shut up
sw is nowhere as near as comparable to the average minimum wage job. having ‘sex’ with strangers in exchange for money is not the same as working at mcdonalds. can yall stop talking about literal rape to try and prove your point its so irritating. like i KNOW capitalism is the root of a lot of evils in current society and its a big promotion tool for the majority of sexism but ur not actually talking about sw and how the exploitation of women has been normalised, u don’t care about the real issues ur saying that waiters are just as exploited and are just as “at risk”.
—once again proving you dont care about feminism you care about liberalism and communism and your economical theories and that’s where your allyship ends, just as bad as men who are pro-sw bc just like them your opinion on sw is only for purely selfish reasons
oh on a seperate but related note, another thing that makes me so mad is the men who claim they do care about women and women’s issues however dislike with and inherently disagree with feminism. to disregard the sjw hypersensitive extremist version of feminist ideology in the media is ok, me fucking too, but all that should be is an incentive to research and educate urself on the actual purpose and goal behind these provocative groups instead of gaining all your information from mass consuming cancerous social media posts and twitter threads
the reason you see so many antifeminist men being ‘supportive’ but talking about patriarchy ONLY existing in places like the middle east and developing countries is because this is the geographical area where misogyny is, by far, the most rampant. by doing this, it allows them to narrow the definition of the concept itself by only considering the most extreme versions of it as an example of its existence.
it allows them to pass of minor forms of misogyny as ‘normal’ rather than being recognised as parts of a much larger oppressive system—simply because it doesn’t pass that threshold of ‘extreme.’ it even allows them to sway the general public against feminism by blurring the lines of what it is we’re actually fighting for, and against, in the eyes of the common man. stop allowing theme to redefine a system that theyre demonstrably not willing to fight against even in the regions where they admit it ‘really does exist’—they don’t actually care about women, it’s just a form of tokenising.